Here are the Problems…
1.
People just rush to the guesthouse on
Valentine’s day. So it’s becoming a day for sex. Not a good idea to do it on
that day.
If you want sex, just do it. No need to use any occasion to justify
your intention. First the 14th February is not a sexual celebration.
So you should have better reason to do it other than using that occasion as a
legitimate title. Here are some problems for having sex on 14th
February now. Couples hanging out together, sitting on motorbike, are pre-assumed
by the public opinion that they are hanging around and looking for guesthouse
to do their things. So the intention of the public is much higher on you than
the usual day. And the authority as well. Now they employ police force at
different locations-guesthouses and hotels-to make sure that no kids under 18
are allowed to enter guesthouse on that day. Last thing is most guesthouses are
full and there are chances that you might see many people (including your
friends or colleagues) at that place as well. So, it’s just very uncomfortable
and not a good idea at all to do it on 14th if you concern about
privacy.
2.
So here’s the real problem: girls got cheated.
Guys use the opportunity.
So what’s is happing is that in the perception of youth nowadays,
Valentine’s is an occasion in which they date each other, admit they love each
other, and finally request for sex. The victim is usually girls. They think it
is right time to sleep with their partners to show their love. The problem is
the misperception about the difference between love and sex. You can do a lot
to show your love besides having sex. Originally people write each other sweet
post card, buy each other chocolate, flowers or small gift. People here refer
to lovers, friends, and family. So just a quick question for girl, does your
boyfriend love you or your body?
It’s not wrong to have sex if you know what you are doing,
consider about it clear enough, and are ready enough for it. But the greatest
pain is when you get cheated. That’s not wise at all. You will regret and blame
yourself so bad about it.
So just some questions to think over to support your
decision:
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What does your boyfriend want from you on
Valentine’s Day?
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Does he request to have sex with you?
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Then ask him why?
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If he says because he loves you, then continue
asking him, if I don’t sleep with you, do you still love me? If I sleep with
you, will you love me more?” Then you can see his reaction.
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You can add: “If you love me, prove it different
way. I don’t need to see your naked body as a proof of your love. If you stop
loving me when I deny, then I’ve to think over because I do not trade my body
for love. If you love me more if I’m ok, then it means what matters to you most
is my body not my soul.
So after all this writing, the
only message to you, girls, is consider well enough and do not get "cheated".
